Securely Connected Video Sessions

When specialized help is not found locally, virtual help is here.

Virtual Support for Healing After an Affair

Betrayal trauma and how to heal after cheating needs a professional who has not just dabbed in a few cases, but lives and breathes the nuances and fragility that defines recovery from infidelity and/or sexual addiction. Often times, counselors refer to those of us who specialize, and other times a client leaves feeling worse because an ill-equipped helper accidentally made the situation worse, instead of referring out.

What to Expect in Your In-Person Session

Video sessions offer coaching and support that address dealing with infidelity and the steps that need to be taken to heal after an affair. If sexual addiction (compulsive sexual behavior) is also present, treatment plans are identified. The differences between video coaching sessions and psychotherapy is what can and cannot be addressed remote versus face-to-face.

Healing from betrayal trauma, or any other forms of trauma, often require the use of trauma therapy such as EMDR, ETT (emotional transformation therapy), psychodrama and/or group counseling.

Teams often are created so that video coaching partners with a local therapist specialized in trauma and some sort of group therapy can be locally arranged as well. Whether all infidelity recovery support is local or it’s a combination of remote and face to face, a team approach is not uncommon.

Coping and overcoming infidelity takes a multi-scope approach, especially in situations where chronic cheating and sexual addiction have been present over time. The specialized affair recovery counseling helps to vet the local support to make sure the affair healing process remains safe and maintains continuity.

Amanda Elliott Asproni, MA

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Amanda Asproni, Masters of Arts in Clincial Mental Health Counseling, started Healing Affairs after her own experience with marital infidelity brought her to the realization that affair recovery resources are few and far between.

Local? We offer in-person counseling sessions.


A Direct & Actionable Approach

“Amanda walked with me during the most tragic time of my life. When I felt there was no hope for my marriage to truly heal from infidelity- she spurred me on. With raw and transparent honesty, Amanda spoke into my life. That she had been where I was, inspired and encouraged me. I found practical strategies for coping and moving forward. I am so grateful for having had made this connection with Amanda during my recovery.”
ShannonMother of 4, Social Services Project Coordinator, Canada

Authenticity & Understanding

“Amanda is someone who puts her heart and soul into helping other people through some of the most difficult times in their lives. Infidelity has a way of making people feel isolated and Amanda has the ability to reach out to that person and let them know that they are not alone. She is amazingly supportive and we are blessed to have had her help us along this road.”
Lucas & ElizabethArmy Soldier & Mother of 4, Washington State

Lifting the Burden of Blame

“Over three years ago I found out that my husband was involved with another woman. I pushed everything down inside, pretending all was normal on the outside, we tried to go on with our lives. I sank deeper and deeper into depression. I felt like I was trapped and wished that God would just take me so I would not have to endure the shame, insecurities, trauma and isolation of this offense. I cried out to God so many times, it seemed there was no one listening. But God led me to a group of women lead by Amanda, who walked me through the things I needed to confront not only in my husband, but in my self. Only those who have shared a similar experiences can know the pain, anxiety, fear, and rejection you are dealing with or are not dealing with. Amanda is that person. She was always kind hearted. Over and over she took the blame for his affair off of my shoulders and put it back where it belonged, on him. She encouraged me to take up for myself, something I had never done. I know that she prayed for me and my marriage all the way through this process and is probably still praying. I am in a much better place now than I was before. I am healing. It is hard to find help these days that actually knows how to deal with infidelity. If you think that you can work through this process on your own, you are deceiving yourself. Whether or not you divorce or stay in your marriage, you need help.”
DonnaAgriculturer, Missouri

Comfort & Trustworthiness

"Amanda was a blessing. We were introduced to her during a very painful time in our lives. We were desperate to know if our marriage could be saved after my husband’s infidelity. She has a way of making you very comfortable to share information and letting you know you are not alone. Gaining that trust is critical for a couple to heal and grow. We will forever be grateful."
Greg & MarieOffice Manager & Accountant, Texas

Keeping Things Down-to-Earth

“Amanda is very real, honest, and easy to talk with because she is a great listener and empathizer. I’m extremely grateful to have her…someone who can speak positively into my life.”
JoyMother of 4 & Small Business Owner, Texas

Making Way for Healing

“I am so thankful to Amanda for being there during some of my darkest times. She was able to encourage me and explain why the way that I was was completely normal at a time in my life when I did not trust anything anymore. She encouraged me to truly find myself and allow myself what I needed to heal in order to be able to look at my marriage as a strong woman, not a victim. Thank you Amanda for picking me up when I was down."
Lisa (Mother of 5 and CEO), Iowa

Kindness & Insight

“Amanda is a kind and patient listener who offers practical solutions and helps me see where I can improve. She also helps me empathize with the other person through her own experiences. You will never feel like you’ve wasted your time.”
LeeGeneral Manager, Oklahoma City